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SCHADENFREUDE: Why do we enjoy seeing others fail?

SCHADENFREUDE: Why do we enjoy seeing others fail?

If we’re completely honest, there’s a dark delight in seeing someone embarrass themselves, especially if we think they deserve it. So, when our irritating boss stomps by our cubicle trailing a few feet of toilet paper from his shoe or a controversial politician is caught in a sexual picadillo, we’re likely to stifle a laugh or at least enjoy a self-satisfied sigh. This joy in someone’s shame or misfortune is called schadenfreude.

Episode 29 – Envy and Jealousy: Hobgoblins in Relationships

Episode 29 – Envy and Jealousy: Hobgoblins in Relationships

Envy is a painful symptom of disconnection from the Self. We relate envy and jealousy to early developmental dynamics, with envy related to the dyad of mother-and-baby and jealousy arriving a later, when the child realizes that sometimes he is left out of his parent’s relationship with one another.